THE MAGIC OF THE HORMONE SYSTEM
PREGNANT WOMEN ARE LIKE KIDS
To be a mother I had a wish since teenagers times. But it is a great responsibility, so always was at the primary point the university, and later the work and looking for a proper partner. Like probably most of us think or say. Always later, always was waiting for better times...
And suddenly a surprise! Me, not expecting and planning at that moment, I got to know that I am pregnant. It was a happiness and a shock at the same moment! I was not ready! The appearance of the boy-friend showed the confusion, in spite of that it was he who wanted the baby immediately then, first. I am very against of being aborted. And, more over, it was the first pregnancy, the first potential child. So, the decision was to deliver it. Such a kind of the jump of he bridge: without being ready enough financially, without knowing if my boyfriend will be a good partner and father. And sure without knowing much about children.
"To get ready properly immediately" - The main idea was turning around into the head. - Tik-tak, tik-tak... Time limits: 8 months.
And another thousand of worried thoughts were changing each other with the speed of the light later: "To get the books, to subscribe to the school for parents... Such the emotional stress! So many problems can be expected! So much things I do not know! How the body would be going during the pregnancy? How to handle that? If I still would need the help and there would be not? How a good mother should to be like? Or, at least, what not to do so not to hurt the child? To go and simply ask some friends, as they have already some experience? No, no one was perfect.. Probably better not to take the wrong advice and do not repeat the mistakes of others.. Still more reliable, I thought, there was the advice of specialist that have the everyday experience..."
To all this, it was added that I became more emotional, more touchy, then usual. I was taking everything very close to the heard. The tears were appearing up for any reason and without the reason both. Welcome back to childhood!.. An adult treating like a kid. The magic of hormone system. And the worst thing there was that the woman does not always recognise this.
As they say, the Merthy Rule works well. The more worries everything to be the best, the more it works the opposite. I used to throw away the bad thought out of the head. And they there appearing again. The bad events surrounding you, the bad thoughts appearing there. The bad thoughts appear, and they attract the bad events. And that creates more panic and confusion. The magic of closed circle. And the panic there was very ruining. If you want to do the most stupid things of your life that you would may be regret the entire life, be in panic! If you want to feel worse, when you are at the pregnancy period, get in panic!
Panic, all negative that create people around you or you by your own create with bad thoughts, can hurt the baby, but also ruin you inside in this period. Being happy - being healthy. Everybody have heard this simple rule I guess. Easy to say, and hard to achieve. But, it is really very important, as I checked.
So, rule number one. When pregnant completely peace and positive emotions only!
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